“The men God sent us as providers have abandoned their duty – Doyin laments
Doyinsola David, also known as Doyin, a reality TV personality, expressed her dissatisfaction with the changing nature of modern relationships, notably the shift in traditional gender roles.
Doyin questioned the present assumption of splitting costs in relationships on Snapchat, expressing surprise that males, who were traditionally considered as providers, are suddenly calling for a more equal approach to financial duties.
She questioned how males could claim to be the “man” in the relationship while yet advocating for a 50-50 split in spending. Doyin said that if a man wants her to share the financial burden on a date, he might as well ask her to contribute to his petrol or tea expenses.
She also pointed out that while she doesn’t mind taking her man out, it becomes a concern when it comes to individuals who are just getting to know her. She suggested that if a man expects her to contribute financially early in the relationship, he might find himself asking for fuel money or transportation fare.
In her words; Who’s gonna help us women inform the lord that the men he sent as providers have abandoned their duty ooo….now they wanna split bills with us.
“You wanna be the man but you still want us to split bills on a date??? Lol
“I have no problem taking my man out but not a nigga that’s trying to talk to me.
“You might as well ask me to fuel your car or send you tfare na….so I can spank your ass when I walk pass and you respond by calling me daddy, since you wanna be a lady.